As a Black person, I no longer feel affected by the use of the “N” word. Over time, it has been used so frequently and in so many different contexts—especially in hip hop, rap, and casual conversations between Black individuals, as well as by some people with racist views—that its sting and relevance have faded for me personally.

Much like the word “woke,” which originally meant being socially and politically aware—alert to injustice, racism, and inequality—the “N” word has undergone a shift. “Woke” is now often used sarcastically, a jab at people seen as overly politically correct or performative. In a similar way, the “N” word has evolved from a symbol of anti-Black hatred into something more complex—sometimes reflecting a person’s attitude or behavior rather than their race.

Today, I see the word less as a racial slur and more as a label some use—rightly or wrongly—to describe despicable behavior, regardless of race. While I’ve never used it to describe anyone, I understand how, in certain social circles, it has come to be applied based on conduct, not skin color.

Let’s be clear: the “N” word was never just a slur—it was a weapon of oppression. It was part of the machinery of slavery, designed to dehumanize Black people and justify their physical, emotional, and social enslavement. But for me, in today’s world, that historical weight no longer carries the same power. Times have changed.

I don’t believe the word should be used. But if people insist on using it, then it should not be tied to race. If used at all—and I don’t encourage it—it should refer to behavior, not identity.

The First Amendment protects free speech, including the use of offensive language. But with that right comes responsibility. If some continue to use the “N” word, let’s at least reshape its meaning—not as a tool for racial division, but as a commentary on one’s actions, no matter their color.